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A Wedding Ceremony to Remember:
Perfect Words for the Perfect Wedding
by Marty Younkin 

 

 


                                

         

Dear Marty, 

I have to admit to you that when Rebecca told me she had found a minister for their wedding on the internet from an organization called 'Love Notes', I cringed inwardly thinking this could be the prescription for disaster.  After meeting you several weeks ago, I felt confident that it would be okay.  But, after Saturday night, I am singing your praises!  What a wonderfully warm (no pun intended) ceremony you performed!  Numerous guests inquired as to how long you had known our family.  Your presence was like having an old friend in our midst.  And I apologize for not inviting you to stay for dinner -- it just didn't occur to me in time.  We heard comments all evening and beyond about the relaxed and personal nature of the ceremony, about your appropriate humor and about the spiritual dimension of the service.  I don't think I've ever witnessed a sweeter ceremony; it set the tone for the entire evening.  The obvious joy with which you do your work is testimony to me that you are called to this ministry.  Your beautiful pastoral prayer with Rebecca and her bridesmaids was calming and helped us to center on the marriage and the purpose for the evening.  Wearing a robe on a hot summer evening was going the extra mile, but it brought an element of the sacred to our outdoor setting -- and you looked really good!  I thank God for bringing us together.  We will help spread the word about your ministry.  You are, indeed, an extension of God's love.  Grace to you,


Delores and Gail Flood,
Appreciative Parents of the Bride
Rebecca and  Chris Colon
Marie Gabrielle's
 

Dear Marty,  

What do you say to the officiant that people are still raving about two weeks after the wedding?  Thank you does not seem to cover it.  You were one of the highlights of the festivities and Dave and I could not be happier.  The service set the tone for the entire evening.  It isn't easy to please everyone, but both faiths present were pleased and happy with not only the service, but with you.  Your professionalism, knowledge, experience and especially your warmth were blessings to us all.  

Sincerely,

Sandy and Dave Silver
Melrose Hotel 


Dear Marty,

Thank you for adding your special touches to our daughter's wedding.  You came highly recommended, but surpassed even our highest expectations.  Your presence was calming when it needed to be, commanding when called for, and always truly impressive.  We strived for a 'classy', but not 'stuffy' ceremony and you were perfect!  Your advice and guidance at the rehearsal and your incorporation of our ideas made the ceremony live up to our dreams.  

Jay and Kristen Murray
Royal Lane Baptist Church 



Dear Marty, 

I wanted to thank you for giving us all a wedding to remember.  I knew you’d be professional, (your manual proved that), but I had no idea you would make the ceremony proceed as well as it did.  You even knew what to do when the groom, (my son) broke down in tears, and had trouble completing his vows.  And when his best man, (my other son), and all the groomsmen teared up (have you ever seen such a thing happen?)  You probably have, but it was a first for the rest of us.  He was so sweet.  She was so beautiful.  But there you were, never missing a beat with your humor and your wise words.  I’ve been to many weddings, but this was one of the best.  And believe me, I’m not saying that because the groom is my son.  (in reality, mothers usually want everything perfect, although it rarely happens).  I’ve lost count at how many guests have called wanting to compliment the ceremony.  Of course, without you and your lifesaving manual, the wedding wouldn’t have been nowhere near as organized, or beautiful.  We were grateful that someone knew what they were doing.  We were clueless.  So, Marty, thank you from the bottom of my heart.  You gave us memories that we’ll always cherish.  And your name will be the only one I’ll be giving out to potential wedding couples.  If I weren’t already married, I’d let you marry me!  (ha ha)!!!  Sincerely,


Deborah Reis (Mother of the Groom)
Brandon and Corrie Hinkson 
New Memories Chapel

Dearest Marty,

Where do we begin?  We are so grateful to have been blessed with the opportunity to meet you.  We cannot thank you enough for making our wedding so special.  The ceremony was more wonderful than we could have expected or even dreamed.  It's as though we've known you for years and years.  Your sincerity and warm expressions meant so much to us, our families, and profoundly touched all of our hearts.  We felt we were filled with God's light and love through your kindness and encouraging words.  Marty, we are deeply indebted to you.  We are extremely fortunate that you were able to be part of our special day.  We see this day as the first day to our lifelong commitment to each other and to God.  Thank you once again for being part of it, and for adding such an inspiring touch.  May you always be blessed with the warmest love, laughter, faith and hope.

Aaron and Teri Rogers
Dallas Arboretum


Marty,

We'd like to thank you for helping us create, and ministering for us, a most beautiful wedding ceremony!  Although our nerves may have been somewhat apparent during the service, you truly did make us feel quite at ease.  Everyone had nothing but high praises after the ceremony and we owe much of that to you!  Anyone selecting your services will be extremely pleased with the personalization afforded to them and will have beautiful memories to last a lifetime.

Lorraine and Keith Sather
Embassy Suites


Marty,

From the bottom of our hearts, let us thank you for a wonderful ceremony!  We couldn't have dreamed it more beautiful!  Your words made our day so special, and your reading is framed on our wall for us to see every day and remember how wonderful our joining together was (and will be)!  Thank you !

Eric and Connie Villines
The Surrey House


Dear Marty,

Where can I begin to thank you for the incredible job you did conducting our wedding ceremony?  You were absolutely amazing!  You were extremely professional, warm, witty, and fun.  You conducted the ceremony exactly as we wanted it, but it seemed so natural and unrehearsed.  And when Russ had a little trouble with the unity candle, you made a wonderful comment and handled it in stride (we still laugh about that incident).  Our wedding day was perfect and you had a lot to do with that.  We've had so many guests comment on what a wonderful job you did.  Thank you again for everything, and please feel free to contact us if you ever need any recommendations!

Mimi and Russ Abell
Belo Mansion


'Dear Rev. Younkin, You have probably never received a letter like this
before.  I contacted you several months ago about officiating my wedding,
but decided on another minister who was $50 cheaper.  After all, I thought a
minister is a minister.  Big mistake!!!  The minister I hired was 45 minutes
late, pronounced my name wrong, and was very nonchalant in his demeanor.
Gary and I were just heartbroken.  We spent a lot of money on other aspects
of our wedding, but somehow failed to see the importance of the minister's
role.  Since our wedding, we have heard wonderful things about you, and we
regret that we didn't use you.  I'm returning the book that you sent us in
hopes that anther bride will use it and you.  If we ever decide to renew our
vows, you will be hearing from me.'

Gary and Janet Peyton


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